Why Fathers Should Spend More And More Time With Kids?

November 11th, 2016



A father’s love contribute as much as a mother’s love in developing the lives of their children. Research conducted in this field shows that the power of parental rejection and acceptance is quite strong in shaping our personalities as children and into adulthood.

Rohner and co-author Abdul Khaleque found that in response to rejection by their fathers, children tend to feel more anxious and insecure, as well as more hostile and aggressive toward others.

When it comes to the impact of a father’s love versus that of a mother, results from more than 500 studies suggest that while children and adults often experience more or less the same level of acceptance or rejection from each parent, the influence of father’s rejection can be much greater than the mother’s.

Father’s love is critical to a person’s development. Here are some of the reasons why fathers should spend more time with their kids.

Children with High IQ

 According to academics at the University of Newcastle, regardless of your own intelligence, just being involved in your child’s life will result in them being smarter and more prosperous. Father’s involvement in child’s development benefits in terms of skills and abilities that endure throughout adult life. A study in 2008 looked at more than 11,000 British fifty year-olds, and found that those whose fathers had been heavily involved in their childhoods had higher IQ scores.

Higher Self Esteem

 A study conducted by academics at Pennsylvania State University in 2012 followed the fortunes of 200 families, finding that children with involved fathers “may develop higher general self-worth because their fathers go beyond social expectations to devote undivided attention to them.”The more time a child spends with the fathers, both alone and as part of a group, the greater confidence they grow up with.

 Children Get in Less Trouble

 The closer the relationship fathers have with their children, the greater is thepossibility that the children will have high self-respect and self-acceptance. Less involved fathers facilitate the opposite reactions. For example, in a recent article published in American Psychologist, Dr. Louise Silverstein writes: “Research clearly documents the direct correlation between father absence and higher rates of aggressive behavior in sons, sexually precocious behavior in daughters, and more rigid sex stereotypes in children of both sexes.”

Children who have an involved father are more likely to be emotionally secure, be confident to explore their surroundings, and, as they grow older, have better social connections with peers. These children also are less likely to get in trouble at home, school, or in the neighborhood.

You Can Understand Their Abilities Better

The more time you spend with your children, the more realistically you will be able to assess their capacities and the more aware you will be of their particular talents and sensibilities. You will, therefore, have the optimal opportunity to provide challenging and stimulating interactions. You will discover not only what they enjoy doing, but how they enjoy doing it.

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